One thing I can not absolutely stand is apologizing. Now lots of you reading this will automatically think "wow this guys a dick..." when you read this but hey, don't judge. I have reasons for all my actions. Now not all apologies are bad. When I realize I'm wrong, I own up to it... and say I'm sorry when needed, but that's rare considering I'm rarely wrong. ;) Now no I'm not that stuck up, its just I argue and refuse to admit I'm wrong when i was not the only person making a mistake. Taking all the blame for a fight is a joke considering it takes two to tango.
But here is the inevitable down side to that... Over time I have built up a pretty good number of people that have never gotten over a petty fight with me. So I wanted to try something new today. I woke up this morning, swallowed my pride, and went to school with a list of names of people I needed to apologize too. It didn't matter what the fight/argument was about, I just straight up apologized for everything to everyone. And I have to admit, it feels pretty dang good. Hopefully I can gain back some well missed friendships.
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